There is a quiet ceremony that happens at the end of a career chapter. It involves a piece of paper, a signature, and an exit interview. We have been conditioned to view this ritual as a funeral. We call it "quitting." We call it "moving on." We look at the rearview mirror of the office …
Continue reading The Resignation That Wasn’t an Ending: Why You Must Know Yourself Before You Sign
Ini kali kedua saya mendapat kesempatan untuk membawakan kelas persiapan pernikahan Kristiani. Truly, I am honored. Tahun lalu, saya membawakan sesi MBRE (Mindfulness-Based Relationship Enhancement). Sampai hari ini, yang paling saya ingat bukanlah materi yang saya sampaikan, melainkan bagaimana para peserta mengingatnya. Setelah kelas selesai, cukup banyak yang berkata, "Oh, itu kelas yang ada latihan napasnya ya?" Saya …
Hai hai... It feels a bit strange to write this again. Empat bulan tanpa suara hati, tanpa arah, tanpa productivity checklist—less posts, less updates, not even a “lagi sibuk kok.” And no, I didn’t disappear because I lost my ikigai. Justru sebaliknya… I was taking care of it. Quietly. Kadang kita pikir kalau kita nggak …
Menjelang lebaran, biasanya ada tradisi : mudik. Mudik is more than just travelling! Bukan sekedar tradisi, mudik juga kerinduan yang akhirnya menemukan jalan pulang. Mudik adalah perjalanan pulang ke kampung halaman - these days mudik bukan hanya secara geografis, tapi juga secara emosional. Saat mudik, jalanan mulai ramai, terminal dan stasiun makin penuh. Juga, timeline …
Continue reading Persiapan Mudik: Little Things Before the Journey Home
In Japan, Ikigai is often described as the secret to a long and happy life. It is the point where four things meet : what you're good at, what the world needs, and what you can be paid for. When these four moments overlap, you find something meaningful. Something that makes you want to wake …
As 2025 starts to wind down, I’ve been thinking a lot about relationships—how we care for them, how they shape us, and how we show up for the people we love.Definitely not the big or dramatic moments but the small things.The tone of voice. The pause when speaking. The laughter. The love. Even the disagreements …
We’re almost at the end of another year — and that makes the end of October feel a little different. It’s like we’re somewhere in the middle, just trying to catch our breath. This in-between time — not quite done, not quite starting fresh — always feels like a quiet pause. Lately, I’ve been noticing …
Seeing grief, love, and life from a different height I don’t know if you’ve ever had this experience—where a memory of a movie lingers, like a faint scent you can’t quite place. You don’t remember the title, you don’t remember the actors, but there’s that one scene that refuses to leave. For me, it was …
Before I begin, let me tell you about Retawu Deli — a deli and café in Malang, best known for its buttery croissants. Crisp on the outside, tender on the inside, they’re the kind you want to savor slowly with your very first cup of coffee. For many, Retawu Deli is a place to gather …
Continue reading Sunlight on My Pages: Journaling by the Window of Retawu Deli
It’s the 11th of August, and I’m writing this from a little corner table in a café that smells faintly of cinnamon and freshly brewed coffee. Outside, the street hums softly—motorbikes passing, a mother calling to her child, the clink of cups on saucers. The sunlight is warm but not harsh, the kind that makes …
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